I was in survival mode. Are you?
- santos0890
- May 26, 2022
- 2 min read
Updated: Nov 30, 2025
A message for the woman who's been holding it all together for everyone else.
If you had asked me a few years ago whether I was in survival mode, I would've said, "Oh, no. I'm fine. I'm functioning."
And that was exactly the problem.
I didn't see that I was waking up every day already bracing. Already carrying. Already preparing myself for the next conversation, the next decision, the next person who needed something from me.
It wasn't chaos that put me in survival mode. It was the accumulation of everything:
The constant transitions
The responsibilities
The pressure to be strong
The fear of disappointing anyone
The political tension and heaviness in the world
The emotional labor of being "the reliable one"
The quiet exhaustion of holding things together that no one else even sees.
Maybe you know that feeling, too.
Survival Mode Has A Look... and It's Not What You Think
Today, survival mode doesn't always look like falling apart.
Most of the time, it looks like:
Waking up tired even when you slept
Feeling disconnected from yourself
Saying "I'm just busy" when you're actually overwhelmed
Overthinking every decision
Feeling guilty for needing rest or help
Carrying stress in your shoulders, jaw, or chest
Feeling "on" all the time, even when you're alone
Functioning ... but not feeling
And because the world keeps spinning -- with work demands, family roles, social expectations, and heartbreaking news every week -- you just keep pushing.
Not because you're okay, but because stopping feels dangerous.
But Here's The Truth: You Weren't Designed To Live Like This
There comes a moment when something inside you quietly whispers:
"I can't keep living this way."
Your body is tired of surviving.
Your heart is tired of stretching.
Your spirit is tired of pretending everything is fine.
You deserve more than holding everyone else up.
You deserve more than pushing through.
You deserve a life that feels aligned, peaceful, ,and grounded.
Not a life where you're just making it...
but a life where you feel like you again.
The Shift From Survival To Restoration
Healing begins with a pause.
Not a dramatic life overhaul -- just a breath.
A moment where you finally allow yourself to say:
"I need something different."
"I need space." "I need rest." "I need me."
And then you take one step toward nurturing the woman behind the strength.
This is the work I do -- helping high-achieving heart-centered women release the weight they've been quietly carrying and reclaim the rest, clarity, and softness they've been denying themselves.
You don't have to survive your life. You can return to it.
Your Invitation Out of Survival Mode
If this message is tugging at something in your chest, I want to personally invite you to one of our retreats. From the silent retreats to the 8 day adventures in our international locations, you will find the sacred space to:
Release emotional and mental weight
Rest without guilt
Reconnect with your inner self
Breathe deeply again
Feel grounded, clear, and renewed
Remember the version of you that feels free
This is where survival ends... and restoration begins.



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